Hi guys!
I haven't been as active on twitter or my blog as I would have liked to be lately, so I thought I would do a post catching you all up on what's been happening!
I had an interview at another hospital for a higher band than I'm in now, and although I got offered the job I had to turn it down because of the cost of travelling to that hospital. I was extremely nervous for the interview and on the day I was actually asked questions relating to another discipline as well as the one I'm in which I wasn't expecting and I had to basically 'wing it' but obviously I did okay! My tip to anyone in an interview is say things with confidence even if you don't know if you're right or not, that's what I did and I got offered the job so it works :-)
As a result of having the interview at another hospital, my hospital decided they didn't want me to leave so I am now able to do the portfolio that I have been wanting to do for a long time now which I am happy about! I didn't actually want anyone to know that I had had an interview incase I didn't get offered it but I did tell a couple of people that I thought I could trust and then somehow everyone else found out but it showed how much people actually care about me as everyone who asked me about it didn't want me to go but wanted me to be happy and my boss who usually talks down to me was really sweet and said he didn't want me to leave as I'm really good at my job and was the one who got me to be able to do my portfolio.
Myself and my husband nearly split up, we split up for a few days and everyone I told was so supportive here! My friends back home were supportive the first time I told them about it but then didn't talk to me about it much after that whereas the people here who I thought I didn't really get on with have been supporting me and making sure I am okay! It has made me see that I have misjudged people and they are actually lovely. I am currently not sure what is going to happen with me and my husband as I do love him and can't imagine being without him but he has cheated on me numerous times and doesn't seem to care about me. If I was a stronger person I would end it for good but I don't do well being alone especially in a city so far away from home so we will see what happens.
He was also threatened on a night out which scared me as they threatened me too but although I'm not sure they know who I am it still gave me sleepless nights!
It doesn't seem like much but that is what's been happening lately and the reason that I haven't been as social as I would have liked to be.
Hope you are all well and have had a fab couple of weeks.
X
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